The Masonic Home
for Children at Oxford

For more than thirty years, Jerry Hart embodied the very spirit of generosity and compassion through his support of the Masonic Home. A proud Mason, Jerry dedicated countless years to ensuring the children in our care felt celebrated and deeply loved. Through the Angel Tree he faithfully hosted at his barbecue restaurant each year, he transformed ordinary holiday seasons into moments of joy and wonder for so many young people. Hundreds, to be exact. To Jerry, giving was never about recognition, it was just who he was.

Those who knew Jerry knew a man whose kindness had no limits. His generosity was not reserved for grand gestures; it was woven into the fabric of his everyday life. Jerry was the kind of man who would truly give you the shirt off his back without hesitation, asking for nothing in return. His selflessness, humility, and servant’s heart left an indelible mark on everyone fortunate enough to know him. While his presence will be profoundly missed, the legacy of compassion and love he leaves behind will continue to live on through the countless lives he touched over the years.

Next time you’re in Raleigh, stop by Ole Time BBQ and order something in honor of Jerry. I promise you won’t regret it ♥️Jerry Benjamin Hart, 72, of Raleigh, NC, went to his heavenly home on May 13, 2026, and is now with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Jerry was born July 1st 1953 in Greene County, NC, and raised in Pitt County, NC, by Henry Harper Hart and Ruby Ellen Gray Hart. As a young boy, Jerry enjoyed his time in the Scouts and was known for being the best camp cook. His highest achievement was earning the rank of Eagle Scout; an accomplishment he remained deeply proud of throughout his life.

Much of Jerry’s youth was spent with his grandfather, Quillie Gray of Snow Hill, NC, cooking barbecue. Together, they dreamed of one day opening a BBQ restaurant.

Jerry moved to Raleigh in 1973, where he spent several years working in the food and beverage industry, catering for small events and participating in competition cooking.

On May 10, 1993, Jerry and his wife Kathy opened the doors of Ole Time Barbecue in Raleigh, NC. For 33 years, Jerry proudly owned and operated the restaurant, serving his community in many ways beyond just a warm meal.

Jerry was known as a giver. If someone was in need, he was always ready to step in and help. Whether raising money for children battling brain tumors or providing Christmas gifts for children at an orphanage, Jerry gave wholeheartedly and unconditionally.

Jerry was also deeply involved in the motorcycle community. He served as president of the BBQ Brothers Riding Club, where he spent many years riding and raising money for those in need.

After retiring from the restaurant, Jerry enjoyed camping trips with his wife Kathy, making friends wherever they went. Jerry’s personality was as big as his heart. He never met a stranger and was always good for a big hug, a laugh, and an “I love you.”

Jerry was a 32° Master Mason and a member of William T. Bain Masonic Lodge 231, Amran Shriners, and Scottish Rite.

Jerry and the love of his life, Kathy Stamm Hart, were married in August 1987. Together they shared 38 wonderful years filled with travel, camping adventures, motorcycle rides, and cherished memories.

Jerry was an amazing father to daughter Jessica Hart Storts; son Benjiman Hart and wife Crystal Malie Hart; and daughter Alisa Hart Grena and husband Joseph Grena.

He also adored his four grandchildren: granddaughters Emma Hart and Abigail Storts, and twin grandsons Cyrus and Sawyer Grena.

Jerry instilled in his children and grandchildren the simple but powerful belief: “Do one random act of kindness every day.”

The family will receive friends and loved ones on Wednesday, May 20, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00p.m. at Bryan-Lee Funeral Home, 1200 Benson Road, Garner, NC 27529.

A funeral service will be held Thursday, May 21, at 11:00 a.m. at Holland’s Church, 9433 Ten-Ten Road, Raleigh, NC 27603.

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The Masonic Home for Children's Annual Gala is almost here, and we're looking forward to an incredible evening in Charlotte with all of you! 🕰️

To make your travel plans as convenient and affordable as possible, we've secured a special room block rate for our guests at the host hotel.

Here is the link to book:
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Hilton Room Group Code: 91A

We are so grateful for your support and cannot wait to gather together for a meaningful night benefiting the children and families we serve ♥️

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If you’ve ever felt called to make a difference in a child’s life, this might be your sign ♥️

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The best part about the Carolina Pig Jig is that 100% of profits go to the The Masonic Home for Children at Oxford and the Central Children's Home of North Carolina. Thank you for your support! ... See MoreSee Less

Tabasco Lodge No. 271 donated $500 for the “Give the give of play” playground campaign on Wednesday. Illustrious Sir Scott Lackey issued a challenge to all lodges to match and support the campaign. Thank you Brethren of Tabasco No. 271 for your love and support for the kids. The Masonic Home for Children at Oxford ... See MoreSee Less

Last week, we had the priviledge of visiting Destiny Dance Institute to receive a $10,000 check raised by their amazing dancers. These girls poured so much time, energy, and passion into making this gift possible, and we are beyond grateful. Their generosity will have a lasting impact on the children we serve. We are so proud to call DDI our partner, and even more thankful to call them friends ♥️ ... See MoreSee Less